The problem with access is that it is….accessible. Yes, we have these powerful cell phones, literally portable computers that we use for sending texts, emailing pictures, logging-on to the Internet with-even at times we use to make phone calls-but they can be as much a wonderful tool to facilitate sex dating as they can for halting that dating dead in its tracks.

How many times do we hear about a guy or girl texting while drunk, and sending off the wrong message to the right person or the right person getting the wrong message? How many times do we simply sit down on our phone and have it suddenly dial someone we had just spoke with, when we are with another lover? How often does a girl allow her guy to take a quick snap of her with his phone, or a snippet of naughty video only to find it online when they break-up? And how many times does our current fuck-buddy blow-up our digits looking for us and grow irate when we don’t call or text them back immediately?

Sex dating can be wonderful in this day and age of finding partners online, of looking through specific sex sites for hook-ups, of men and women looking for sex casually and facilitating fun liaisons off the net that won’t cut into one’s normal everyday life. But the very technology that sees us finding like-minded naughty populations, sees us in masturbatory sex chats or cybering while camming, is the same technology that can pretty easily trip us up when sex dating.

It just comes down to a little more attention in what buttons you push, in who you are sending a sexy Twitter picture to, in just who you give your number out to, who you let take a picture of you. The more we put ourselves out there, wherever the there might be; the more connected we are to whomever we are connected and the more we use our devices the more possibility for trouble there is.