All modern-day daters now almost exclusively look for dates online. Any kind of population we are interested in, any specific locale we want to find a partner in and any and all desires, from long-term long affairs, soul-mate matching and even sex are sought exclusively with one’s mouse and modem connection.

But is one type of dating easier to find then the other? And given our usual penchant for the naughty would that easier type be sex dating?

Couples are seen walking hand-in-hand on dating site T.V. ads but just as many a rolling from post to post on their beds doing the nasty, a direct result of finding one another online at a site strictly for sex dating. The naughty little secret most of us won’t admit to is that a lot of the time we are looking for dates, in clubs, at our local bookstore or online, we are looking for a hook-up, to press our naked flesh to another’s naked flesh, to get-off with someone who will equally get off with us, and not ever ask to see us again! The truth of the matter is, neither sex dating or a sedate movie-and-dinner outing is easier to find then the other, but sometimes sex dating is easier to execute and really what we want.

The direct approach sometimes works after all. At least with sex dating there is no miscommunication over what partners want. A little check of sex safe precautions, maybe some discussion over limits, likes and kinks, some shared sexual history, maybe sharing a glass of wine or two; if the chemistry is right two consenting adults can have at it pretty much without drama.

We all know regular dating is fraught with drama, especially the more expectations we bring to it

In the end we can access all kinds of dating on line and while regular dating seems prevalent, it might just be our expectations that make sex dating easier.